Fading love




Fading love...


Why love fades away...






Why sometimes love fades away?



Romantic love can (and often does) fade. It fades, and if it’s left to fade....it will disappear. When it goes there is not always a reason.


True love is the sense of security one preserves from their object of desire. Their target offers the individual a range of emotions that the person feels they require, be it hope, happiness, courage, etc.


Unfortunately in many relationships these feelings do not always last long as we want it to last, and then it becomes a sense of familiarity, comfortable and routine.


Love is trust. And trust is a two way street; you get it if you give it. If there is little or no trust in a relation love will progressively fade away. If you want a relationship built on trust you have to trust in the other person as much as you do in yourself and vice versa.


Sometimes it is very easy to confuse lust for love. The true measure of romantic love is commitment and trust not always physical attraction.


But sometime love is just not enough! But if it was true love (if it exists), it will never fade. Even after a breakup or divorce, if you ever truly loved the person, this feeling will not fade (it may change?).


Love is about being true to oneself. This emotion of the highest purity …then how can it not make us be free, liberated, and safe about being ourselves? Love is paradoxical. It is dependent on the people involved but surely it should make us feel better about ourselves and be able to discover out depths. We are limitless... to such magnitude that we need a companion to discover what is within... Love should do that.